hard to get or easy to get?
yesterday somebody I know said “guys treasures girls whom are hard to get more”. and I think that it is REALLY STUPID. for my age, seriously, having a boyfriend or not is not important, and the best is not to. but when it comes to this topic, I really hate it when people THINKS that girls whom are hard to get are better. ain’t love about.. LOVE? about the feelings? about how compatible you are, about how comfortable you feel when you’re with that person? it ain’t about “oh you don’t want me, I like you even more”. it’s about “so you like me too, it’s fate!
can’t some people just realize how lucky it is for somebody you really like to like you back? it’s not only about who’s hot and who’s not. it’s about compatibility. as long as that person fulfills your requirement like not too ugly, not too fat, not too skinny and they’re very compatible with you, more like soul mates, then congratulations, you’ve found the one. but if you kept thinking “gosh, she’s so easy to get, cheapo.” then I guess you’re just another sick uncivilized barbarian. can you try to define cheap? easy to get doesn’t mean that they are cheap, because if that one person you like likes you back, I don’t see why there is a need to slow down the whole process and play hard to get. what cheap girls is to me are those who goes clubbing, meeting anonymous and having a one night stand with them after clubbing, more like sleeping with a different guy everyday, which is sick.
I don’t see why so many people go clubbing anyway, it’s all smoky. I hate smokes, it makes me sick, I’m kinda allergic to it. and also, it’s more like a waste of money. going occasionally would be alright, but not often of course.
okay back to the topic. SO some of you think that if that girl is easy to get then she will probably get dumped? if that guy she like only treasure girls that are hard to get then that guy is 100% not suitable for her. because the guy doesn’t love her for her, he just love to have flings. and girls, these type of people is not worth your time at all. don’t any of you agree with me? those guys who like hard-to-get girls are just arseholes who think that they’re the king of the world. like they are worth liking for.the sea is filled with fishes, and arrogant (those who thinks all girls loveee them) ones are just some infected fish. =)
June 28th, 2008 at 2.01pm06
Wah,Jamie naik angin
Jamie,dont get too excited talking bout this topic.. Hahahaha
Jamie,i mau join your angin also,is there any slots to go through
We can punch wall together.. keke
June 28th, 2008 at 2.01pm06
ahakz. uncivilized barbarians. quite true, yet different people have different opinions about it. =D
June 28th, 2008 at 2.01pm06
I totally agree with you Jamie. TOTALLY! I guess it’s all back to being appreciative. Somehow, humans are just odd creatures. When a person is around to love and nurture them, they are somehow not appreciative. Until that person is no longer around. And I guess it’s the same explanation to what you have to say - girls that are harder to get are better. *shrug* Oh well…
June 28th, 2008 at 2.01pm06
sejarah 35 ……………
June 29th, 2008 at 2.01pm06
hard to get or easy to get doesn’t matter at all. what matters is how far they are willing to go for a relationship and how genuine their feelings are. liking a person based on looks alone is a subtle form of perversion.
and yes i dislike smokes too
June 29th, 2008 at 2.01pm06
girl u’re officially my idol! u just blogged bout something i didnt like guys to say.i hate it when ppl say easy girls are cheap.how bout easy guys? r they not cheap too? LOL
June 30th, 2008 at 2.01am06
I fully agree with you! In fact, many young ladies have the exact or should we call it urban myth, “guys treasures girls whom are hard to get more”. Btw, I kind of miss my ol’ days in secondary school…
June 30th, 2008 at 2.01pm06
Hi Jamie,
Good Thinking, Held on to the principles you believed in. Do not be shaken, do Not conform. You will indeed bumped into a well-attitude guy. Keep Hope Alive.
Leo
June 30th, 2008 at 2.01pm06
lol i think i know who u are talking about.. but i think u misunderstand him.. or mayb u are talking about other people? iono D: if my guess is correct.. i think u misunderstood him bah D: XDXD
July 1st, 2008 at 2.01pm07
Ah. Yeah. That ageless topic.
It’s mostly a matter of a guy’s ego and self-invented machismo when it comes to getting girls. It’s really kinda sad that people these days treat human relationships as nothing more than bragging rights, more so when it involves their feelings. Sick? I wouldn’t go that far, but there’s definitely something wrong with the picture =/
It’s the girls’ right to behave however they wish, and also their right to refuse any guy who happens to be looking to satisfy his own ego.
Is this still relevant? x_X
Alex |\/\/|