Valentines, a day which girls and guys express their love to somebody they like with flowers, chocolates, jewelery, poems, perfumes, the meal you made yourself, clothes and so on.

BUT there are even some do’s and don’t for it too, for example.. you’re thinking, “I’d give plastic flowers to my girlfriend to represent our love for eternity and bla bla bla as plastic don’t die”. FAKE flowers actually represent FAKE love, so do you still want to give her fake ones? and you thought “it’s a day for her, let her decide” YOU CRAZY?! thats one of the most ‘no-heart’ ideas ever, give some effort and yes it’s okay even if you surprise her with a bag of gummy bear and give her a hug and say happy valentines, because it’s still something you think of ^^, she might have something planned for you too! and you want the day to be special, so you thought you will show her what you like to do the most/where you usually go and it’s a boy sort of stuff. do it another day! don’t bore her on valentines or she might go angry =D.

Your boyfriend doesn’t give you anything, absolutely NOTHING for valentines and you’re feeling a bit miserable, according to most Malaysians, Valentines is when guys and girls exchange gifts. But to some people, actually White Day is when your guy should give you gifts, so wait for March 14th to come and you might get surprised with a lovely poem or something else! but, errrr Malaysians don’t celebrate white day? (ok, MOST Malaysians) very sad thing. So just lets combine it both together and yes lets give girls gifts too on Valentines day and save back your $$ on white day. =D.

Thinking of what to give him/her.. a though one, if you’re a guy, easy-lah, girls stuff is all over, but be wise, make sure it’s her thing, the rarer the better sometimes (so she won’t see it everywhere she goes). But if you’re a girl, you can stroll the whole mall and think what suits him best, if you can bake, BAKE. If you can make chocolate, MAKE. (not the chocolate you make in the toilet obviously =P)

But if you’re a schooling person like me, you might as well just erm, delay it to the weekend. Maybe a call on Feb 14? =D. But tell you what you can do to put a BIGGER smile on her/his face on Valentines, surprise her/him with a hand made card or a card you bought but lots of your scribbles is in it ^^ and put it in her/his schoolbag when she’s/he’s not there, or you can dunk it in her/his mailbox. =D. OH YEA, also include a “love letter” and write down when to exactly meet and stuff, be creative!

For singles (and is not looking), you can make cards or wrap a small chocolate with ribbons and wrappers and give it to your single friends ^^ (that’s what I did). and if you’re single and likes somebody and don’t know what to do, use some heart to make a card or maybe buy her a box of chocolates, give it to her/him! if she/he likes you, she’ll/he’ll like you more ^^ and if she/he doesn’t like you (this might be what you think only, so just give anyway), friends also can give stuffs like that-lah! it’ll boost up your friendship! ok, I think. I’m not THAT sure, but that’s what I think.. haha.

Tips on creating a card : it’s always better to have a silver(or any colour you like) card/paper behind a picture/words etc. and follow its shape when you cut it, like a frame. It makes the picure/word stand out and it’s more attractive, might make the simple card look gorgeous even if it’s simple.

And remember, gifts you give should be reasonable for your own financial status, winning a girl/guys heart with a expensive gift is stupid (yes it’s mean to use the word stupid =P) thoughts that counts alright? =)

YES GIRLS LOVE FLOWERS! GUYS TOO!

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